I'm so confused, why can't I understand guys?

thats a red flag. the first thing i thought was that hes a player. does he say what you want to hear all the time? is he a smooth talker? im guessing yes. why else would he stop contacting you after you told him you didnt have a job. of course on the other hand he might have thought that since you dont have a job he didnt want to deal with a woman without a job. there are alot of gold diggers in the world to. good luck. let me know what happens.