Sunday, August 7, 2011
What should I do about this relation issue?
(Prior history: I had just gotten out of a very serious relationship)Ok so I got in a new relationship with this guy only after dating him a few times. He asked me to be his gf like this: "You know you could be the girl...If you wanted" I accepted his request. He acted very happy and overjoyed and soon said "I would pick you over a Victoria's secret model..not that I am trying to say ur not attractive, cuz ur gorgeous" This remark really pissed me off so I ignored his messages and calls. He was trying to get me to meet his parents, but I was pissed about him trying to say this to me (I'm not sure why..maybe its because I am uber sensitive)Anyway hes like I really want this to work and I really care about you and all this stuff. I told him I wouldn't play his games and he just tried to apologize for ruining my day. So I agreed to stay with him and he told me I should call him. So I did and he started saying how the day wasn't good without me and how he went to the store and things he saw reminded him of me or something and that he wanted to go make out in a forest with me. He also tried to call my house once and my dad answered and he was like "who is this!?" to my father and my father got very pissed off at him. When I asked him why he responded to my father like this over the phone he said it was because he had no conidence. Yet, I was able to talk to his Mom on the phone and she told me he talked about me all the time. The next time we went out he started saying how he thought I was "beautiful" and crap and it made it look like he was trying to make up for his actions then he tried to make out with me even though I told him I had to go and he seemed angered and said he wasnt coming back for a while...so I said: I guess we will find out if you really care. Then one day on Facebook one of the other guys who had a crush on me started making personal attacks about him and I just laughed because secretly I was still mad at him and then he got upset when Justin said he didnt really care about meand he just wanted to use me and that he would leave me as soon as he found something else that struck his interest. He asked me what I thought about what justin said and I said I dont know...then he said he needed time to think and he said he thought we should just be friends *thats how his last gf broke up with him* So I thought, oh great he wants to hurt me like the last person he was in relationship hurt him. The i said how shocked I was he said this after all the time we had spent planning and talking together and then he accused me of just being afraid of being alone (that also really pissed me off) All that time my other crush kept saying what an he was and that he should shoot himself in the head. I was mad and he said he was crying and then he asked me if I was too. Then he told me to get to sleep and that he was still coming to see me tomorrow and talk to me. I thought ok...but I still had bad feeling about all of this...I already didnt trust him and now I began to trust him even less after trying to scare me like that. He wrote a really long note about how sorry he was and that he was having a mental break down that night and that he hoped none of my feelings for him had changed. I accepted his apology yet again. He talked about how his single self was much different from his relationship self and that he used to be a man but changed. Then new years came he made alot of big plans and then he failed to keep them my best friends date ran away and he ended up trying to kiss her on the cheek. I felt a bit angered by this and then we went to her house and played to truths in a lie which soon turned completely ual and he tried to get me and my best friend to play strip poker with him, but my friend wasnt about to let anything happen. I didnt like playing to truths and a lie because me and my best friend were both d and the game was basically used to try and make us look like s. I felt so terrible. I told him I had to go home and then he thought the reason I was mad was because he hadnt had with me yet and I basically lost any kind of feeling I had for him after he said that. I threw his gloves*he borrowed them to me* that he told me not to loose out the window and wouldnt talk to him anymore. The next date he kept talking about how he had done all these bad ual things like a devils triangle and he kept talking about his summer vacation...what was I suppoed to say about mine...that I spent every waking moment in agony because I lost the person i loved due to the fact i myself played games with their heart? Anyway It seems like all he does is bring up other girls from his past to me. He also tells me I should wear skirts and dresses and skanky clothes basically. He says hes not superfical but after all of this hasnt he proven himself to be a liar. Later on he talked about how he never actually banged some of this chicks he told me about. I dont know it also seems like whenever we g
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